Unalterable Love and Predilection of Jesus

Divine Appeal Reflection  - 122

Today, consider in Divine Appeal 122:  "My love is unalterable and will endure to the end of time with the same tenderness and predilection." 

Many souls discover their deepest sorrow not when they suffer material loss, but when they realize that human love can change without warning. A friendship fades. A spouse becomes emotionally distant. Children become occupied with their own lives. Trusted companions stop calling. Communities once warm become indifferent. The heart begins to fear abandonment. It is here that Our Adorable Jesus reveals a love entirely unlike created affection: His love does not retreat with time, misunderstanding, old age, emotional dryness, or repeated weakness. His tenderness remains. He is not exhausted by our poverty. Joseph son of Jacob experienced betrayal by brothers, false accusation, and prison,(cf. Gen 37–50) yet divine providence continued guiding him through hidden years . The external signs of favor disappeared, but the covenantal love of God never withdrew. This remains a pattern in the spiritual life. Our Adorable Jesus often permits human supports to grow fragile so the soul may discover the deeper stability of divine fidelity . When reassurance, success, or emotional certainty fades, the heart begins learning to rest in God Himself rather than His consolations (cf. Heb 13:8). St. Elizabeth of the Trinity understood that the soul carries an indwelling Guest whose presence remains faithful even when emotions fluctuate or interior consolation disappears .Her writings reveal that Christ remains especially near when prayer feels empty. The church (CCC 218–221) teaches divine love precedes every human response and remains faithful despite infidelity . This is intensely practical. The retired teacher forgotten by former students. The consecrated soul whose sacrifices are unseen. The father silently carrying debt. The woman grieving a miscarriage. The youth rejected by peers. Our Adorable Jesus does not merely observe these wounds; He remains within them. His Heart does not withdraw from the soul in pain. His tenderness often becomes most active precisely when earthly affection fails (cf. Is 54:10; Heb 13:5; CCC 164).

There are sufferings the human voice cannot fully explain, and in those hidden chambers Our Adorable Jesus enters without being invited by words. His predilection means He knows the personal story of each soul: not merely actions, but interior history—the childhood fear, the unspoken shame, the regret over one decision, the loneliness hidden behind service. His love is precise. He sees beyond behavior into burdens carried silently. Hagar (cf. Gen 16:7–13; Gen 21:14–19) encountered divine attention in isolation when cast away into the desert . She learned that God sees the person society forgets.Likewise, Our Adorable Jesus sees the hidden burdens of countless souls: the cleaner rising before dawn, the mother carrying postpartum exhaustion, the seminarian battling discouragement,(cf. Ps 34:18) the elderly man quietly grieving lost purpose . What the world overlooks, Christ notices with tenderness. Saint Zélie Martin sanctified domestic suffering and ordinary family anxieties, showing that divine tenderness enters homes, not only monasteries. The Church teaches each person is individually willed by God and called into personal communion . This means Christ does not love categories; He loves souls. He sees the nurse afraid of losing compassion, the catechist secretly tired, the student ashamed of repeated failure, the farmer worried by drought. Our Adorable Jesus approaches these realities intimately. The soul often discovers this during Eucharistic silence, a late-night prayer, or tears after confession. Without dramatic signs, His tenderness makes itself known by interior peace. He reaches where no human conversation can entirely reach (cf. Ps 139:1–12; Jn 10:14; CCC 478).

The fallen soul often commits a second wound after sin: it hides from the very Heart that can heal it. Shame convinces many that Our Adorable Jesus is disappointed beyond tenderness. Yet the love of Our Adorable Jesus remains unchanged . He never blesses sin, for sin wounds the soul and obscures communion with God (cf. Is 59:2), yet neither does He withdraw His love from the sinner. Divine Mercy reveals a Heart that grieves over sin precisely because it loves so deeply . Christ rejects whatever destroys the person, but never ceases seeking the person Himself. Even in failure, His love remains an invitation to return, repent, and begin again . Many souls are lost not because mercy was absent, but because they stopped approaching mercy. Jonah fled from God’s call and hid in resistance, yet divine mercy pursued him through storm and correction (cf. Jon 1–4). The same occurs interiorly. The student trapped in pornography, the businessperson hiding dishonesty, the spouse nursing resentment, the priest burdened by discouragement—all may believe distance protects dignity. In reality, avoidance deepens darkness. Saint Mark Ji Tianxiang endured decades of spiritual suffering and exclusion, yet Christ’s fidelity remained and brought him to heroic witness. Saint Margaret of Cortona discovered that divine tenderness can transform even years of disordered living into profound holiness. The Church teaches conversion begins because grace first touches the sinner’s heart (CCC 1428, 2001). This means Christ moves toward the soul before the soul fully returns. The person should therefore remain in prayer even after failure: kneel before the tabernacle, return to confession, hold the Rosary, remain near the crucifix. The worst moment to leave prayer is after falling. Our Adorable Jesus remains the same. The soul may feel dirty, ashamed, spiritually tired, but His tenderness persists. The Heart that was pierced remains open precisely for those who think they have failed too greatly (cf. Rom 5:20; Ps 51; CCC 982).

Many wait for visions, miracles, or extraordinary feelings, while the tenderness of Our Adorable Jesus passes quietly through ordinary events. A delayed bus prevents an accident. A priest unexpectedly hears confessions. A child asks a question that awakens conscience. A Scripture reading during weekday Mass answers a hidden struggle. A hospital visit changes a family. Divine tenderness often comes disguised as daily circumstance. Ruth encountered providence through ordinary field labor and simple loyalty,(cf. Ruth 2–4) yet God was arranging salvation history through unnoticed acts . So too, Christ’s tenderness often moves through small events the soul later recognizes. Saint Gianna Beretta Molla lived holiness in medicine, motherhood, and ordinary decisions. Saint André Bessette served in humble tasks while quietly revealing extraordinary trust in providence. Their witness shows tenderness is often ordinary before it is visible. This matters deeply. The teacher who almost resigns but receives one consoling conversation. The widow who enters church only to escape grief and unexpectedly finds peace. The youth invited to adoration by a friend. The driver spared from an angry decision. The worker receiving courage to refuse corruption. These are often the fingerprints of Christ. The CCC teaches divine providence works through created causes and ordinary events (CCC 302–305). Our Adorable Jesus often chooses hidden means so the soul learns attentiveness. Gratitude, daily examen, and Eucharistic thanksgiving help unveil this. The person gradually realizes: many moments of preservation were His tenderness quietly guiding the soul (cf. Prov 3:5–6; Rom 8:28; CCC 303).

The deepest sign that a soul has encountered the unalterable love of Our Adorable Jesus is not emotion, but transformed tenderness toward others. The person who knows they are loved despite weakness begins to treat others differently. They become patient with slow conversion, merciful with repeated failures, and gentle toward hidden suffering. Christ’s love becomes apostolic through them. Barnabas recognized grace in those others doubted, receiving and encouraging the newly converted (cf. Acts 9:26–27). Saint Damien of Molokai entered human suffering physically, living among the abandoned because divine tenderness had conquered fear. Saint Marianne Cope brought maternal dignity to those society avoided. This transforms ordinary life. A manager listens instead of humiliating. A catechist notices the withdrawn child. A wife forgives slowly but sincerely. A son visits an aging parent. A seminarian prays for priests. A young adult accompanies a friend battling addiction. A doctor sees the patient as soul before case. The Church teaches every Christian manifests Christ through daily witness (CCC 897, 2044). Our Adorable Jesus sends tender souls into places where hardness dominates. Families, offices, schools, prisons, hospitals, and parishes do not need perfect people; they need souls whose patience has been purified by having encountered the mercy of Christ in their own weakness (cf. 2 Cor 1:3–4). Those who know they have been forgiven often become gentler, slower to judge, and more capable of carrying the burdens of others (cf. Gal 6:2). The love of Our Adorable Jesus (cf. Mt 28:20; Jn 13:1) endures through every age because His Heart never ceases seeking each generation . A soul that truly trusts this love becomes, often without realizing it, a refuge for the forgotten—a quiet shelter for the wounded, discouraged, and those who no longer believe they are still loved by God .

Prayer

Our Adorable Jesus, let Your unalterable tenderness heal the hidden wounds we carry in silence. When human love changes, remain our refuge. Teach us to return to You after every weakness, to recognize Your providence in ordinary days, and to become gentle signs of Your faithful Heart for forgotten souls, Amen.

Sr. Anna Ali of the Most Holy Eucharist, intercede for us.